A Den of Homeschooling Moms 29 March 2007
Posted by Obi-Mom Kenobi in Educational Theory, Obi-Mom Kenobi.2 comments
Here is a picture taken last night of wonderful group of homeschooling women that I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know. From the left is me, Lisa, Irene, Yoda, Qui-Gon Jinn and Anna. Getting together once every month or so, we meet (where else?) at a nearby bookstore’s coffee shop.
What really makes getting together fun, is that we all homeschool very differently. While we’re all homeschooling for academic reasons, none of us do so in quite the same way. To a one, we use what’s best for our kids and ourselves. We drop what’s superfluous and try out different things until we find what works best. Here’s a rundown on the six of us there last night (a few of the others couldn’t make it).
One mom goes over a list of “topics to be covered” and “books worth reading” with her son each fall and lets him set his own pace and agenda. She helps when requested, but mostly lets him learn in his own way (as he has requested). Another mom uses a standard “boxed” curriculum but substituted a different math program. Her husband teaches the boys Latin and, soon will begin teaching, Greek. One mom is quite hands-on, learning by doing. She has been known to tap maple trees and raise chickens (in the city, no less). Another mom follows the traditional school year with her boys quite closely – because their family goes sailing for the entire summer! (We’re all quite jealous.) Another mom’s house is a wonderfully eclectic combination of a library, a teacher supply store and a mad scientist’s workshop because she orders, finds and uses a wide variety of materials in her homeschool. She’s our go-to mom for book ideas. And the final mom is graduating one of her daughters this fall. She’s our light at the end of the tunnel sometimes. It’s been delightful watching her oldest daughter get accepted to several excellent schools and receiving a full-ride at one of them and a significant scholarship at another.
We’re not alike in any personally identifiable ways, outside of being white females. We have different ages, temperaments and backgrounds. We have different hobbies, religious convictions, political beliefs and income levels. Our activity schedules rarely overlap. Our children are also as different as children can be. We are simply mutually respectful and genuinely interested in each other’s lives, and that is enough.
He was so wonderful. He showed us the controls, the maintenance and upkeep procedures and a couple other engines and trolleys that they swap in and out to keep a train running at all times. I was surprised to learn that over the course of the holiday season, the train – taking 4 minutes to make a loop – runs over 1,000 miles and completely wears out its sets of wheels and couplings.

