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Frederik Meijer Gardens 7 December 2007

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On Wednesday, Padawan Learner and I headed over to Frederik Meijer Gardens (after driving back home to pick up my wallet – duh – and filling up the car with gas as the low fuel light was on – doh). Yoda, Lando Calrissian, R2-D2, Qui-Gon Jinn and C-3PO were already there waiting for us. After perusing the international Christmas trees, we headed over to the holiday train and trolley exhibits. This was merely a prelude to the REAL show though, as Qui-Gon had arranged a behind the scenes tour of the train layouts with the resident train engineer (and rest of the year head botanist for the indoor gardens).

He was so wonderful. He showed us the controls, the maintenance and upkeep procedures and a couple other engines and trolleys that they swap in and out to keep a train running at all times. I was surprised to learn that over the course of the holiday season, the train – taking 4 minutes to make a loop – runs over 1,000 miles and completely wears out its sets of wheels and couplings.

Thanks to Yoda for the picture.

Well, well, well. How time flies. 2 November 2007

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These have been eventful weeks in our house. For all of you that have been concerned about the basement shower, you can rest easy knowing that it is in, functional and only needs the last little touch ups to make it picture perfect. Oh, and they installed the piping to the hot/cold nozzle backwards. Sigh. One last thing, huh? Dad Windu still needs to finish painting the ceiling, even out the floor next to the shower and put down tile next to the shower door. Hopefully, these things will be completed this weekend, but either way we are no longer trying to wash our hair in the bathtub so all is good in my book.

We pulled up a bit short on the Halloween ridiculousness this year. We hit the basics of course, pumpkin carving and Trick or Treating, but did little else.

I never did get a single Halloween decorations out, which is a huge shame because I love Halloween and have a few things that I drag out of storage only for October. Padawan Learner went as a Cereal Killer (picture below).

 

I didn’t get to sew the boy a costume this year, nor last year come to think of it. Maybe that part of my life is getting phased out. On Halloween morning, we headed out to assemble the costume (nothing like waiting until the last minute). We bought an orange shirt at the first store we went to, had to drive around for a while to find iron-on letters and couldn’t find orange pants for the life of us. He had already “improved” his oversized box of Cheerios. After his homeschool gymnastics class and a visit to the podiatrist, we headed over to Qui-Gonn Jinn’s house for some play time before dinner and Trick or Treating. Unfortunately, Yoda, Han Solo and their boys like to Trick or Treat in “their own neighborhood” but at least we got to see their costumes last weekend. C-3PL was quite ferocious looking in his Ninja costume, just so you know. Dad Windu met us at Qui-Gon Jinn’s after work, but decided to stop at home to divest himself of his Obi-Wan Kenobi costume first. I guess wearing it all day at work had been enough for him. Go figure.

The Boy and Jessica attain the 7th level of nerdness 10 September 2007

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I had this thought as I went through the library today and saw The Boy and his friend Jessica duking it out with their Pokemon card collections.

“He has a high retreat cost.”
“My Tentacool, with his evolution Tentacruel…”
“Oh yeah, well my Abra, Kadabra and Alakazam combo will totally destroy your…”

I completely don’t understand the appeal of this game, but so many kids love it – and a few grownups that I’ve met as well – that it has attained almost a cult following. Let me rephrase that. It has achieved a level seven nerd quotient.

I was reminded of the SNL skit where Paris Hilton introduces a new phone “service” line for the hard core D&D, Star Wars, Star Trek and Lord of the Rings fans. You know who I mean.

The Boy Participating in a Little Pre-Game Kabitzing with Teammates 8 September 2007

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After a mere two practices, today was The Boy’s first ever soccer game. He decided about a month ago that he wanted to take a break from poking strangers with metal sticks and was interested in giving soccer a try. While we were sad to see him leaving a sport he’s been involved in for so many years, we were glad to see him giving something new a try (and not unhappy to be able to take a break from the expense of fencing).

The Dad was especially interested in having The Boy try out one of his favorite sports, but was a little concerned about The Boy taking it up later than most players do. We looked around a bit and felt that AYSO was the best place for an “older” player to start out (most league players his age have been playing since they were 5 or 6), since AYSO’s primary goal is to teach the skills, teamwork and sportsmanship necessary for players to love the game for years to come.

While it was obvious that these kids were out to win, they were excellent at redirecting The Boy back to his position when needed, didn’t yell at each other about missing balls or screwing up. They were positive with each other no matter what happened, which is a great thing to see – especially from a crowd of 12 – 13 year old boys.

We were rather impressed to see The Boy get some nice footwork on the ball, fake out a rival player with a backwards kick, and run like mad out there. Several people in the stands were surprised to hear that he had never played before. He seems to have a preference for defensive positions, but he was also seriously butt-dragging tired when he switched to the forward position, so I guess we’ll see what he prefers down the road. Regardless, I’m pretty sure he’s going to sleep well tonight.

The Boy Turns 12 – The Mom Is Unprepared 10 July 2007

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How did this happen? Geez, the time is really flying this summer. I can’t even keep up with pictures from The Boy’s birthday, let alone the other fun stuff that’s been happening around here!

Michigan’s Adventure, in Reverse 6 June 2007

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By the end of the day, Yoda, Qui-Gon Jinn and I had four happy young men.

Now, as all moms of kids between the ages of 0 and 18 know, that is not always an easy thing to accomplish. So here’s what happened:

1: We encouraged them to fly down rapidly moving streams of water with nothing more than gravity and the laws of physics to keep them safe.


2: We (to be read as Qui-Gon Jinn) helped them get those really (quite large) raft/tube things up to the top of the water rides.

Exhibit A Who was the brainiac that decided to require people to get a huge rubber raft up a flight of stairs in order to go down the ride? I am forced to assume that he holds stock in a heart attack medical supplies company.

Exhibit B Yoda supervises while I pretend to be occupied taking photos.
3: We did not require anyone to ride any park rides that he did not wish to ride. Nor did we resort to peer pressure – maybe we would have, but it just doesn’t work on any of these hopelessly self-confident boys. One of the side effects of that blasted homeschool emphasis on thinking for yourself…

4: We let everyone take turns picking the next ride on the amusement park ride.

Da Vinci’s Horse 5 June 2007

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We went to the Frederik Meijer Gardens and Sculpture Park with another homeschooling family. They have an exhibit on chocolate that the kids really enjoyed. They also have Rodin’s The Thinker on loan from the Detroit Institute of Art. But the hands down favorite was, as always, Da Vinci’s Horse.

Screen-Free Week 4 May 2007

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So, where have we been? What have we been up to? Why was that same post taunting you each time you came to visit? Good question. Our family goes screen-free at least once each year. We’re all a little too fond of the flashing, glowing lights around here so sometimes we go cold turkey for a week or more and find something else to do. Padawan Learner’s friends have been known to shudder at this activity, but it works for us. In fact, it sometimes works for them too.

We had a pair of brothers spend the night here last Friday and they almost decided not to come when they heard their visit would be happening without screens! As it was, though, they all had a great time. It was kind of a gloomy day when they first got here, but they headed upstairs to play and talk for a couple of hours. Later that night, we ordered a few pizzas and the three of them they played Blokus (greatest game ever) with Dad Windu. They talked and played some more until it was lights out at 11pm. The next morning, I made some pancakes and they pulled out the Sorry game, which they then morphed into some kind of Sorry-like game which appeared to go on forever. Since Saturday was nice and sunny, they answered the call of the wild by the neighbor kids and ran themselves into the ground playing Green Goblin, Base Tag and a game they made up which they called Velocitrator. My understanding is that it involves one kid being the hunter and all the other kids are velocitrators. The hunter tries to kill the velociraptors, which turns them into hunters. However, if a hunter is touched by a velociraptor than the hunter becomes a velociraptor. Whichever group successfully manages to turn everyone else into part of its group wins. They weren’t too hung up on the scientific accuracy of this situation, obviously.

A few weeks ago, PL and I went to a local environmental school for a wonderful nature-based homeschool class. It was gorgeous outside, which really made us happy to be roaming around in the prairie, woods and wetlands. We found edible plants such as Plantain and Yarrow. Yarrow was used by settlers to numb their teeth before extractions. We all put some along the gum line or at the tips of our tongues and were surprised by how quickly those areas lost feeling. It sure would have been a useful plant to have when a toothache came along.

We checked out the bluebird boxes and took out any materials from other birds so that the bluebirds could nest. We learned that two bluebird boxes should be placed about ten feet apart, so that the invasive birds can focus on one (which you keep pulling out) and the bluebirds would have the other in which to build. Because bluebirds naturally only live and nest in dead trees with holes of a very specific size, their habitat is all but vanishing as people cut down dead trees when cleaning up their wooded areas. So if you clean the dead trees out of your wooded areas, be sure to build and maintain a couple of bluebird boxes to keep these pretty little birds around. We learned that bluebirds only use grasses to build their nests, so we checked the viewing sides of all of the other bluebird boxes for interlopers.

Later we all donned rubber boots, grabbed some nets and small containers and headed over to the wetlands. Our group found spring peepers peeping, lots of larvae, cattails, and some small leeches attached to PL’s rubber boots. As he has a deep and abiding hatred for these little creatures (based on an early-childhood trauma), it seemed only fitting that he would be the only one to whom they gravitated. For the record, I love seeing kids in rubber boots. They’re adorable and utilitarian at the same time. One boy had green boots with big, yellow frog eyes popping from the top. One hip mom had bright red boots, which I coveted.

 

Last week we all had lunch with Brian, from our Ann Arbor days. It had been over two years since we’d last seen him, which is shameful on our part. In that time, he had gotten married (with his first anniversary coming up this month), learned that men who are married to women in a medical residency program rarely see their wives, and when they do they go on cool vacations such as Banff.

Padawan Learner is still enjoying woodcarving class. Presently he is working on a bowl and is considering a wooden knife. I know, how surprising!

Yesterday we started back up with our formal Dutch lessons. My Dutch teacher always takes April off to travel out west with her mom (who flies in from the Netherlands). Beforehand, though, we got together with Qui-Gon Jinn, Yoda and the boys and nearly missed our lesson because time just flew outside at the park!

A Den of Homeschooling Moms 29 March 2007

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Here is a picture taken last night of wonderful group of homeschooling women that I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know. From the left is me, Lisa, Irene, Yoda, Qui-Gon Jinn and Anna. Getting together once every month or so, we meet (where else?) at a nearby bookstore’s coffee shop.

What really makes getting together fun, is that we all homeschool very differently. While we’re all homeschooling for academic reasons, none of us do so in quite the same way. To a one, we use what’s best for our kids and ourselves. We drop what’s superfluous and try out different things until we find what works best. Here’s a rundown on the six of us there last night (a few of the others couldn’t make it).

One mom goes over a list of “topics to be covered” and “books worth reading” with her son each fall and lets him set his own pace and agenda. She helps when requested, but mostly lets him learn in his own way (as he has requested). Another mom uses a standard “boxed” curriculum but substituted a different math program. Her husband teaches the boys Latin and, soon will begin teaching, Greek. One mom is quite hands-on, learning by doing. She has been known to tap maple trees and raise chickens (in the city, no less). Another mom follows the traditional school year with her boys quite closely – because their family goes sailing for the entire summer! (We’re all quite jealous.) Another mom’s house is a wonderfully eclectic combination of a library, a teacher supply store and a mad scientist’s workshop because she orders, finds and uses a wide variety of materials in her homeschool. She’s our go-to mom for book ideas. And the final mom is graduating one of her daughters this fall. She’s our light at the end of the tunnel sometimes. It’s been delightful watching her oldest daughter get accepted to several excellent schools and receiving a full-ride at one of them and a significant scholarship at another.

We’re not alike in any personally identifiable ways, outside of being white females. We have different ages, temperaments and backgrounds. We have different hobbies, religious convictions, political beliefs and income levels. Our activity schedules rarely overlap. Our children are also as different as children can be. We are simply mutually respectful and genuinely interested in each other’s lives, and that is enough.

Mud Always Beats Plastic 25 March 2007

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The plan was to go to the playground. You know, that place with the “recycled plastic and rubber” play structures, the “imagination-inducing” theme, the “multi-sensory” environment. Yeah, they played on that for, what?, 90 seconds before heading over to the mud.

C-3PO and Lando Calrissian wore boots, which was thinking pretty far ahead. Padawan Learner and R2-D2 were in mere sneakers. I noticed that the level of water-related abandon, ultimately, became directly related to the goo-shucking ability of each boy’s footwear. Lando ran, quite literally, in-out-and-through the water for much of the time. C-3PO found the best material for his canals in the “softer” parts of the mud. R2-D2 was content to help dig out the canals and pile the detritus alongside of them.

PL shot some home videos with my camera, but they were so vertigo-inducing that I couldn’t post one here. Time to invest in some motion-reducing technology? A few lines of dialog include: “The elusive …”, “The elusive so and so, playing in the sand. Let’s go in for a closer look. It’s like tracking the Yetti, only a lot less exciting,” “It’s the elusive moms,” and “This is a Wookie. This Wookie doesn’t smell weird. He actually smells much like soap.” PL likes the word elusive – a lot.